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Japanese for “Inviting a friend to dinner”
You invite your friend to have dinner together. Your friend can't do Friday, so you find another day and decide on a time and a restaurant.
Sample dialogue
You (You)
今度の金曜日、晩ご飯に行きませんか。kondo no kin'youbi, ban gohan ni ikimasen ka.
Would you like to go out for dinner this Friday?
Friend
金曜日はちょっと難しいです。すみません。kin'youbi wa chotto muzukashii desu. sumimasen.
Friday is a bit difficult for me. Sorry.
You (You)
そうですか。土曜日はどうですか。sou desu ka. doyoubi wa dou desu ka.
I see. How about Saturday?
Friend
土曜日はいいですよ。どこに行きますか。doyoubi wa ii desu yo. doko ni ikimasu ka.
Saturday is fine. Where shall we go?
You (You)
駅の近くに新しいイタリアンの店があります。そこはどうですか。eki no chikaku ni atarashii itarian no mise ga arimasu. soko wa dou desu ka.
There's a new Italian restaurant near the station. How about there?
Friend
いいですね。何時に予約しますか。ii desu ne. nanji ni yoyaku shimasu ka.
Sounds good. What time should we book for?
You (You)
七時はどうですか。shichiji wa dou desu ka.
How about 7 o'clock?
Friend
七時ですね。わかりました。じゃあ、予約しておきますね。shichiji desu ne. wakarimashita. jaa, yoyaku shiteokimasu ne.
7 o'clock, got it. Then I'll make the reservation.
Phrases you can use
〜ませんかmasen ka
Would you like to ～? / Shall we ～?
Use this polite form to invite someone to do something with you.
週末、映画を見ませんか。shuumatsu, eiga o mimasen ka.
Would you like to watch a movie this weekend?
ちょっと難しいですちょっとむずかしいですchotto muzukashii desu
That's a bit difficult (for me)
Use this to decline politely without saying a flat no.
今日はちょっと難しいです。kyou wa chotto muzukashii desu.
Today is a bit difficult for me.
〜はどうですかwa dou desu ka
How about ～?
Use this to suggest an option and ask what the other person thinks.
明日の昼はどうですか。ashita no hiru wa dou desu ka.
How about tomorrow for lunch?
いいですねii desu ne
That sounds good!
Use this to agree warmly with a plan or suggestion.
いいですね。行きましょう。ii desu ne. ikimashou.
That sounds good. Let's go.
Casual vs polite
Casual行かない？ikanai?
Polite行きませんか。ikimasen ka.
Casual is for close friends. Polite is for people you don't know well, teachers, or coworkers.
Casual金曜日はちょっと無理かも。kin'youbi wa chotto muri kamo.
Polite金曜日はちょっと難しいです。kin'youbi wa chotto muzukashii desu.
Use the casual one with friends. Use the polite one when declining someone older or less familiar.
Casual土曜日どう？doyoubi dou?
Polite土曜日はどうですか。doyoubi wa dou desu ka.
Casual is short and friendly for friends. Polite adds です and ですか for coworkers or new acquaintances.
Culture tip
In Japan, people rarely say a direct no to an invitation. Saying ちょっと難しいです or suggesting another day shows you still want to meet, and it is seen as considerate.
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